{"id":235,"date":"2026-05-20T13:22:15","date_gmt":"2026-05-20T13:22:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/124.50.248.187\/?p=235"},"modified":"2026-05-21T14:45:25","modified_gmt":"2026-05-21T14:45:25","slug":"%ec%bb%ac%eb%9f%bc%ed%8f%89%ed%8c%90%ec%9d%98-%ec%8b%9c%eb%8c%80-%ec%9a%b0%eb%a6%ac%eb%8a%94-%ec%99%9c-%ec%82%ac%eb%9e%91%eb%b3%b4%eb%8b%a4-%ed%8f%89%ea%b0%80%ec%97%90-%ec%a7%91%ec%b0%a9","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.media-journalist.com\/?p=235","title":{"rendered":"[\uceec\ub7fc]\u201c\ud3c9\ud310\uc758 \uc2dc\ub300, \uc6b0\ub9ac\ub294 \uc65c \uc0ac\ub791\ubcf4\ub2e4 \ud3c9\uac00\uc5d0 \uc9d1\ucc29\ud558\ub294\uac00”[Column] “The Age of Reputation: Why We Obsess Over Approval More Than Love”"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Reporter Chae-young Bang (Jamie)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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We live in an age when everyone tries to be liked by everyone.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

People read the room, constantly self-censoring to make sure they haven’t fallen short of someone’s expectations. The rise of social media has only accelerated this trend. Now people consume even their most ordinary moments through the lens of others’ reactions and judgments.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The trouble is that in the process, it becomes easy to lose your real self<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

People are imperfect. You may be remembered as warm by one person and cold or lacking by another. The same action can be interpreted in completely different ways depending on the viewer’s experiences, emotions, and relationship with you. In the end, being a good person to everyone is, for all practical purposes, impossible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And yet so many people are easily shaken by a single word from someone else \u2014 lifted up by praise, brought low by criticism. That’s what it means to live in an age where reputation feels like personal worth. But a person’s value is not determined by the assessments of others alone. What may matter more is the willingness to accept yourself as you are, and to hold others in the same way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Some people will like you. Some will misunderstand you. Some may criticize you for no reason at all. These things arise naturally within human relationships. What matters, perhaps, is not trying to control every gaze directed at you, but pausing to ask: with what kind of heart am I treating people and living my life?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

In the end, what matters more is not becoming someone approved of by everyone<\/em>, but living as someone who never loses love. It’s okay not to be perfect. Even when you stumble and fall short, what counts is the willingness to try again \u2014 to love, to understand, to embrace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Perhaps the truly strong are not those who overcome every criticism, but those who, even in the midst of being wounded, keep choosing love. And perhaps that love begins not with the world’s approval, but with a gaze that sees our own existence as worthy \u2014 first.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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